I begrudgingly admit to being the odd man out where the Njoy Pure Wand is concerned. Try as I might; I can never seem to find a way to make this legendary wand work for me. Truth is, I possess a bit of a phobia surrounding the hugely popular stainless-steel wand. 

My fear surrounds one of the Pure Wand’s rigid metal ends, somehow managing to get hung up on, or immovably wedged beneath, my pubic bone—making it nearly impossible for me to dislodge the dildo on my own. 

As remote of a possibility as this scenario might be, it’s grown into a legitimate concern for me. 

Le Wand Arch stainless steel dildo

And no, the improbability of such an event occurring does not escape me—the laws of physics, alone, are enough to avert such a nightmare scenario from unfolding. Yet, my anxiety-riddled brain still sees fit to induce me to near panic at some point during nearly every single one of my attempts to try and relax and glean some pleasure from the Pure Wand’s design. 

Rationally speaking, I know that the Pure Wand’s hefty 1.5 lb mass, coupled with gravity, is more than force enough to cause the Pure Wand to self-eject from my body and fall to the floor with a loud clang.

But, why then, am I still plagued by horrific images of me doing an awkward, stiff-legged shuffle into the nearest Urgent Care center, as the Pure Wand remains uncomfortably wedged and stuck protruding from my body?

This nightmarish thought is enough to put me off trying the Pure Wand, at least, for the foreseeable future.

On the brighter side, I do have some good news to share with you. In fact, I’m thrilled to have discovered a far less intrusive alternative to the daunting shape of the Njoy Pure Wand in the Le Wand ArchUnlike the Pure Wand, the Arch glides effortlessly in and out, without banging rudely against my pubic bone on every other stroke. 

Le Wand Arch stainless steel wand

Had you noticed it before? I personally think the Arch’s crescent-moon shape, glinting mirror-finish, stainless-steel composition, and substantial heft impart this wand an air of lavishness. And just in case you are now wondering, the Arch weighs just shy of 2-pounds (1.8 lb), only a few ounces more than the Pure Wand

Fair warning, hand fatigue is a virtual given when using the Arch, particularly in lengthier sessions. 

In fact, I’ve come to regard the Arch’s weight to be something of a double-edged sword. It can be both a blessing and a curse. It’s a factor that undoubtedly requires your consideration before deciding to purchase this toy. Some things to consider are whether you’ll be using it alone or with a partner and whether or not you have any preexisting wrist or arm injuries or other conditions that the use of this particular toy could potentially exacerbate. It’s certainly something to consider.

Le Wand Arch stainless steel wand

Thanks to the Arch’s dual-ended design, it feels almost like you’re receiving two toys for the price of one. And boy, do I love to stretch a dollar wherever I can. 

You’ll notice one side of the Arch’s double-ended shaft sports a familiar broad, flattened tip. This silhouette has become widely associated with affecting highly targeted G-Spot stimulation. It’s meant to emulate the classic come-hither motion when it’s thrust in and out, in a short back in a forth motion. 

For me, this flattened tip fits snugly against my G-Spot and creates a pleasant and consistent amount of pressure on it and the buried internal structures of the clitoris. It’s enjoyable, but nothing to write home about.

The other end, my favorite of the two, has more of an elongated taper and incorporates a trio of expertly placed ridges. These ridges provide me with a fabulous source of external stimulation and are virtually the sole reason I’ve fallen head over heels for the Le Wand Arch

Le Wand Arch stainless steel wand

While trying out this end (the heavier of the two), it didn’t take long for me to discover that it’s easier to leave gravity to do most of the work for me instead of trying to work against it. By simply allowing gravity to do its thing, the weight of the stainless steel naturally draws the wand inward and causes it to slip effortlessly inside me. It feels heavenly thrust against the internal structures of my clit. While externally, the triple row of ridges graze past and excite my external clit. 

The Le Wand Arch is one of few toys that doesn’t require me to utilize a source of supplemental friction and/or vibration. Its well-thought-out and all-encompassing design make it one of those rare all-in-one toys. 

Maybe one day, I’ll find the courage to revisit and attempt to conquer the Njoy Pure Wand, but I think, for the time being, I’m quite content to have discovered the charms of the Le Wand Arch.


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