About

I spent the first half of my life ill at ease with sex and my sexuality, trying to squish myself into boxes others told me I needed to fit into. Never feeling at ease with the fact that I enjoy sex. Continually find myself struggling to walk some self-imagined line between “matronly mother” and “sultry sex kitten.” Careful not to veer too far off course in either direction.

Eventually, I came to realize my sexuality was slowly being suffocated out of existence by the small-town culture, of fear and judgment, I was immersed in.

Finally, in a moment of vivid clarity, I realized life is way too damn short to give mere strangers the authority to dictate to me whether I should feel guilt or shame for simply enjoying all of the pleasure my body has to offer.

That is my choice, mine alone, and I choose pleasure, free of guilt, free of shame.

Now I’m ready to embrace and learn all there is to know in the realm of sex positivity. It has been so freeing to
realize I don’t have to be a “blonde bombshell” to deserve sexual satisfaction. As a matter of fact, sex is supposed to be fun, no need to try to hold my stomach in or worry about finding the best position for hiding my fat rolls. I want my sexual experiences to be more vulnerable and authentic.

I don’t have to follow some pre-fab template the culture and media have rolled out for me to follow. I’m allowed to be the imperfect person I am, and still enjoy sex. I deserve pleasure and so do you! Together, let’s spread the message!

Take my hand and let’s go on a journey. Working together, toward becoming comfortable in the skin we’re in. Consciously committing to continue learning about quality sex toys, sexual position aids, lingerie, and lubricants. Let’s build a community of knowledge and open communication.

Cumulatively working to build an open community of shared knowledge and open communication. Showing the world what we’ve come to know. Sex is something to be shared, not hidden away like a dirty secret. It is time to claim the pleasure that we have far too long been denying ourselves. Pleasure is our birthright! Let’s unite, to empower the world one orgasm at a time.

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